Are you an Introvert? Can you live viciriously in the internet, but in public become quiet, withdrawn, and even when you are being nice, you come across as rude? Would you rather be in your room, reading, playing games, or other hobbies, instead of being at a loud party or get together? Would you rather people just shut up and leave you alone? If this is the case, come on in, I have been waiting for you....i wanna tell something about intraverts...
Do you know someone who needs hours alone every day? Who loves quiet conversations about feelings or ideas, and can give a dynamite presentation to a big audience, but seems awkward in groups and maladroit at small talk?
Oh, for months every one denied it. After all, introverts have good social skills. They are not morose or misanthropic. Usually they are far from shy. They love long conversations that explore intimate thoughts or passionate interests. In doing so, they have found themselves liberated from any number of damaging misconceptions and stereotypes. Now Iam here to tell you what you need to know in order to respond sensitively and supportively to your own introverted familymembers, friends, and colleagues. Remember, someone you know, respect, and interact with every day is an introvert, and you are probably driving this person nuts. It pays to learn the warning signs.
Introverts are not necessarily shy. Shy people are anxious or frightened or self-excoriating in social settings; introverts generally are not. Their quiet, introspective ways, they argued, should therefore be viewed not as a deviation from standard, but as a different kind of normal.
Extroverts are energized by people. Leave an extrovert alone for two minutes and he will reach for his cell phone. In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially "on," we introverts need to turn off and recharge. This isn't antisocial. It isn't a sign of depression. It does not call for medication. For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating.
Our motto: "I'm okay, you're okay—in small doses."
It is very difficult for an extrovert to understand an introvert. Extroverts are easy for introverts to understand, because extroverts spend so much of their time working out who they are in voluble, and frequently inescapable, interaction with other people. They are as inscrutables. But the street does not run both ways. Extroverts have little or no grasp of introversion. They assume that company,especially their own, is always welcome. They cannot imagine why someone would need to be alone; indeed, they often take umbrage at the suggestion. As often as I have tried to explain the matter to extroverts, I have never sensed that any of talking, where as extroverts tend to think by talking, which is why their meetings never last less than six hours. If you notice that someone's getting tired out by a long conversation, they're probably an introvert. But it's not a first impression kind of thing.
They love people—They are not misanthropic for the most part. They just can't socialize with them all the time. They want to hold their hand or hug them or just sit quietly and read a book with them.Introverts think more than extroverts .. they prefer silence ... they finally tend to be stronger, sincere, more intelligent and hard working and have more integrity than their careless counterparts ... according to me introverts cant mix with all kinds of people easily, but when the right combination comes they mix very well......
Iam also an introvert.....it's not something abnormal to be introvert...nothing made me an introvert....coz i'm an introvert by birth .......it was just my inborn nature...may be it was due to lack of frnds in my childhood that i cudn't open up properly...so many inferior complexes ....
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
aaaaaa.....
i guessssss...
cant xpress myself infront of evryone....very shy...but at times dunno from where alot of confidence comes.....at times talk alot.... n the next moment sitting at a loss of words...sometimes love to cry for no reason...always worried if i would say that what will the other thing....huhhhhh ! Iam sooooo confused......! But Iam enjoying every bit of being an introvert"
I think im an observer. I used to stare in dark sky of night for hours, i dont know why.....i feel comfortable when im alone...anyways i love the way Iam......i love people....but i dont care people loves me or not...I'm happiest in my own room surrounded by my books and PC and music.....Iam reserved and dont want to let people know about me ..... thats one secret i like keeping .....
why ? ......because .....thats me!!!!!Iam Proud to be an Introvert
Iam aloNe but strrrrrrooooooooNggggg.....
Do you know someone who needs hours alone every day? Who loves quiet conversations about feelings or ideas, and can give a dynamite presentation to a big audience, but seems awkward in groups and maladroit at small talk?
Oh, for months every one denied it. After all, introverts have good social skills. They are not morose or misanthropic. Usually they are far from shy. They love long conversations that explore intimate thoughts or passionate interests. In doing so, they have found themselves liberated from any number of damaging misconceptions and stereotypes. Now Iam here to tell you what you need to know in order to respond sensitively and supportively to your own introverted familymembers, friends, and colleagues. Remember, someone you know, respect, and interact with every day is an introvert, and you are probably driving this person nuts. It pays to learn the warning signs.
Introverts are not necessarily shy. Shy people are anxious or frightened or self-excoriating in social settings; introverts generally are not. Their quiet, introspective ways, they argued, should therefore be viewed not as a deviation from standard, but as a different kind of normal.
Extroverts are energized by people. Leave an extrovert alone for two minutes and he will reach for his cell phone. In contrast, after an hour or two of being socially "on," we introverts need to turn off and recharge. This isn't antisocial. It isn't a sign of depression. It does not call for medication. For introverts, to be alone with our thoughts is as restorative as sleeping, as nourishing as eating.
Our motto: "I'm okay, you're okay—in small doses."
It is very difficult for an extrovert to understand an introvert. Extroverts are easy for introverts to understand, because extroverts spend so much of their time working out who they are in voluble, and frequently inescapable, interaction with other people. They are as inscrutables. But the street does not run both ways. Extroverts have little or no grasp of introversion. They assume that company,especially their own, is always welcome. They cannot imagine why someone would need to be alone; indeed, they often take umbrage at the suggestion. As often as I have tried to explain the matter to extroverts, I have never sensed that any of talking, where as extroverts tend to think by talking, which is why their meetings never last less than six hours. If you notice that someone's getting tired out by a long conversation, they're probably an introvert. But it's not a first impression kind of thing.
They love people—They are not misanthropic for the most part. They just can't socialize with them all the time. They want to hold their hand or hug them or just sit quietly and read a book with them.Introverts think more than extroverts .. they prefer silence ... they finally tend to be stronger, sincere, more intelligent and hard working and have more integrity than their careless counterparts ... according to me introverts cant mix with all kinds of people easily, but when the right combination comes they mix very well......
Iam also an introvert.....it's not something abnormal to be introvert...nothing made me an introvert....coz i'm an introvert by birth .......it was just my inborn nature...may be it was due to lack of frnds in my childhood that i cudn't open up properly...so many inferior complexes ....
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.....
aaaaaa.....
i guessssss...
cant xpress myself infront of evryone....very shy...but at times dunno from where alot of confidence comes.....at times talk alot.... n the next moment sitting at a loss of words...sometimes love to cry for no reason...always worried if i would say that what will the other thing....huhhhhh ! Iam sooooo confused......! But Iam enjoying every bit of being an introvert"
I think im an observer. I used to stare in dark sky of night for hours, i dont know why.....i feel comfortable when im alone...anyways i love the way Iam......i love people....but i dont care people loves me or not...I'm happiest in my own room surrounded by my books and PC and music.....Iam reserved and dont want to let people know about me ..... thats one secret i like keeping .....
why ? ......because .....thats me!!!!!Iam Proud to be an Introvert
Iam aloNe but strrrrrrooooooooNggggg.....
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